It is a sensitive and delicate question to test whether your predecessor has not yet let you go. If not handled properly, it may cause many unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions. Below, we will introduce some methods that can help you test whether your ex has yet to let go of you from the following aspects.
- Keep in touch and chat about the latest situation
Maintaining moderate contact with your ex is an important way to understand whether they still care about you. You can inquire about his recent life and work status through text messages, WeChat, or phone calls, understand his current situation, and appropriately express your concern and blessings for him. At the same time, you can also explore some hints between the other party’s words during the chat process, such as whether the other party often mentions your past together, or whether they are too reluctant to let go of your beautiful memories, and so on. These can serve as a reference to determine whether the other party still cares about you.
- Take the opportunity to meet and find suitable intersections
Encountering or making an appointment with an ex is also a way to test emotions, but it is important to switch angles and methods. Whether it’s an unexpected encounter or an active invitation, it’s important to choose the appropriate time and place, and avoid making the other party feel that you are too proactive in pursuing. If we can find suitable intersections during the meeting process, such as each other liking the same dish, paying attention to the same movie, etc., we can appropriately expand the topic and pry into each other’s dynamics and thoughts in the communication.
- Use social networks to keep an eye on each other’s whereabouts
With the development of social networks, one can understand their life trajectory and emotional changes through their dynamics, posts, and more. If you find that your ex frequently interacts with you on social media such as social media, Weibo, or other social media platforms, with topics focused on photos you have taken or places you have visited, or if he responds to your dynamic messages, it indicates that he still has memories and nostalgia for you.
- Invite mutual friends and listen to their feedback on you
If you have common friends with your ex, you can get some feedback from them about their evaluation of yourself and also learn about their views on your breakup. You can invite mutual friends to gather together and test your ex’s true thoughts in the name of friendship. Of course, it is necessary to consider the loyalty between friends and operate without causing embarrassment.
In summary, the main ways to test whether your ex has yet to let go of you are from four aspects: keeping in touch, taking the opportunity to meet, using social networks, inviting mutual friends, and so on. It is important to grasp the accuracy during operation, and not make the other party feel too proactive or misjudge their emotions, which can lead to difficult to handle consequences. If you are still unsure whether the other party still cares about you, then face this relationship more rationally and do not think twice before making any decisions.